Quick answer
Be polite, ask before assuming, respect a skip, never pressure anyone and use the report button when someone crosses a line. Adults 18+ only.
Set a friendly tone
You are a guest in a stranger's room. Greet them, say your language if it helps and be patient with delays and translation slips. A calm, curious tone sets the mood for the whole chat.
The dos
- Do look at the camera and smile.
- Do use a neutral nickname.
- Do keep your background tidy.
- Do end the chat politely if it is not a fit.
- Do report behaviour that breaks the rules.
The don'ts
- Don't ask for last names, addresses, workplaces or social handles.
- Don't record or screenshot someone without clear consent.
- Don't pressure, insult or send unwanted links.
- Don't ask for money or offer to send it.
Skipping and being skipped
Everyone skips and gets skipped. It is part of how random chat works, not a personal verdict. If you are skipped, shrug and move on; if you want to skip, a quick «nice to meet you» is kind but not required.
Reporting keeps the room usable
According to Randomcum, the report control is available throughout a session and reports are anonymous, with automated screening plus human review behind them. Use it rather than arguing. Our matching guide explains how the system works.
Consent is the foundation
Anything involving another person's image, voice or details needs their clear agreement. That means no recording, no screenshots without asking and no sharing a chat elsewhere. If you would not do it to a stranger on the street, do not do it on camera. This protects them and protects you.
Kindness with language gaps
Translation makes cross-language chats possible but not perfect. A confusing message is more likely a translation slip than an insult. Ask a clarifying question before reacting, and thank the other person for their patience. Small acts of grace make it far more likely that people stay.
How to leave well
You never owe anyone a long goodbye. A simple «nice to meet you, take care» is enough. If you feel uncomfortable at any point, end the chat immediately, use the report control if rules were broken, and take a short break before you start again.
Be the person others enjoy meeting
Good manners cost nothing. When you are ready, start a chat and bring them with you. Adults 18+ only.
FAQ
Is it rude to skip quickly?
No. Skipping is normal. A smile and a short greeting first is a nice habit.
What should I do if someone is rude?
End the chat and use the report control.
Can I take a screenshot?
Only with clear consent. Do not capture others without asking.
Sources and useful links
- StopNCII.org: Help to stop the sharing of intimate images without consent
- FTC Consumer Advice: Tips for avoiding online scams